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Japanese
Dining Etiquette
Japan
is highly noted for its refined etiquette. Before you begin to gobble
and chew, you must first learn the Japanese way of proper table
manner.
 
Before
and After the meal
There are two expressions which the Japanese need to say out loud
before and after the meal. Before eating the meal, the Japanese
will say "Itadakimasu!" which means appreciation for the
meal prepared. When the meal is done they will say "Go-chiso-samadeshita!"
which means gratitude for the wonderful meal and for the hospitality
of the person who prepared them.
While
Eating
A Japanese meal usually consists of a bowl of rice, miso-soup(suimono),
and two or three dishes. The more the side dishes, the finer the
meal is. When there is several dishes in front of you, it does become
rather confusing to figure out what to eat first and so on. The
proper order to eat these dishes is to sip a bit of the soup then
the order you dig in does not matter. However, don't keep on eating
the same dish until it's done and then moving on to a new one to
do the same. Always eat in rotating circles and leave about the
same portions left in each dish when you complete one rotation.
Then you'll finish all the dishes at the same time.
The
following diagrams show both the order in which the dishes are served
and give an example of how they might be arranged on the table.

-
sakitsuke (hors d'oeuvre)
-
zensai (appetizer)
-
suimono (clear soup)
-
sashimi (slices of raw fish)
-
nimono (stewed seafood and vegetables)
-
yakimono (broiled fish)
-
agemono (deep-fried seafood and vegetables)
-
sunomono (vinegared seafood and vegetables)
-
gohan (cooked rice)
-
tomewan (miso soup)
-
konomono (pickled vegetables)
-
kudamono or mizugashi (fruit)
Since
there are several dishes, some of them could be placed farther as
the above diagram. In such case, you may pick up small plates and
bowls including the one's for rice and soup but cannot remove flat
plates or big bowls off the table.
Eating
in a different way
Though the Japanese way of table manner seems to be rigid, for some
menu, there lies just the right way to devour it, which is surprising
to the people of other cultures. An example is sushi. When you eat
this Japanese food celebrity, it is traditional not to use chopsticks
but always your bare hands to dip in soy-sauce and bring it to your
mouth.
Another example is noodle, they slurp them straight up from the
sauce bowl and never hesitate to make some noise. According to their
culture, making noise when eating noodle means it is delicious.
They are in a way trying to tell the chef how delicious the food
is and show their appreciation.
The
Toast
An
orthodox Japanese meal usually consists of sake, which is the Japanese
white wine. The Japanese loves drinking sake at the meal. They always
begin a meal with the toast of sake. It is held only once at the
beginning of the meal, and you are expected to at least pretend
to take a zip, even if you don't drink.
Japanese
Tea
The Japanese adore drinking tea. Different tea serve at different
time of the meal.
In general, sencha (green tea) is served before the meal. During
and after the meal, hojicha (roasted tea) is served.
Though
table manners are important, just relax and enjoy the flavors to
the fullest.

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